Jordan and I decided to see each other before the ceremony so we could take some photos and perhaps alleviate nerves. Our photographers, Seth and Mary, set up a "first look" for us in a beautiful corner of the Pere Marquette, where we got ready. Jordan stood with his back to the door and I walked down the hallway. When I got to where he was waiting, Mary told Jordan to turn around. As soon as I saw him in his wedding finery, I instantly felt more relaxed. We were both grinning like crazy, and it felt like the wedding day was officially underway.